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So you have made it through the no contact period and have been living it up and taking incredible care of yourself – congratulations!
Now you finally get to confront your ex with what he let go of.
And he will assume it is because you are so broken-hearted over your breakup that you just can’t pull yourself out of bed.
Because I had been waiting for him, I was able to remain confident and interact with him with ease.
Stop moping and stop searching; I have your answers. Time to put your big-girl panties on and take action.
I am going to tell you how to win him back after a breakup. Put the ice cream away, shut off The Notebook and pay attention. My best bet is that you have been a bit all over the place.
You can win him back, but happily ever after is going to take some work on your part first. A little chaotic and hypersensitive to just about everything. This is all normal, including the panicked thoughts about how to win back your ex boyfriend. But that voice really is up to no good; it is the beaten down and broken-hearted part of you that simply isn’t capable of thinking clearly.
I'm going to share with you six phases you're going to push through during this period. Desperate to get him back and clueless about how to accomplish that. Once, after a particularly bad breakup, I spent an entire week in my apartment with the blinds closed and the phone unplugged. It is a post-breakup haze that can drown out all reasonability; a voice in your head telling you to text your ex at 3 in the morning to tell him how much you miss him, because surely that is how to win him back. And if you truly want to know how to win your ex boyfriend back, you have drown out that voice.